AM I SO STUPID AND A FOOL?
You believed in yourself you gave 2nd or more attempts and that's it. Don't feel guilty about it. You did what you think you should do. Now stand for your decision and don't remorse about it. You are not answerable to anyone about why you could not perform well. To master the concepts and techniques which are essential to qualify NEET takes time, this time varies person to person that's why they give you age limits and many chances to reappear in the exam.
You are as bright as everyone who gets selected.
WHAT WILL I SAY TO PARENTS?
They don't ask you why did you fail they only need to know that if you had given your best for the exam. They are always with you just be honest with them. The family is what which keeps you strong.
I DON'T FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Before you do something take a break for at least one week. Go and meet your childhood friends and the ones with whom you like to spend time. Get yourself involved in some outdoor sports which you like. Go out and sweat.
Don't avoid peoples which may ask you questions about your exam and failure. Face them, tell them confidently I could not perform well. You have not done any crime so don't hesitate from anyone.
At 1st you have to accept yourself and your failure in this exam. Face the truth and take your full responsibility of this. But keep in mind you just failed in an exam and there are many mores waiting for you in life. It is just a part of life. Everyone fails at some point of life. It is inevitable. You can't be afraid of failures. On an average out of 10 attempts lion gets to kill a prey only 3 times but does that stops him?
SHOULD I PREPARE AGAIN?
Don't make a decision in hurry. Now you may be feeling angry or you may have strong urge to prove yourself to parents or society. Know one thing clearly that you don't have to prove anything to anyone. You don't need approval from anyone. While being angry or sad the decisions you take does not prove to be wise and sooner or later you will regret it.
Analyze your position on various aspects like TIME, AGE, MARKS OBTAINED and your MOTIVE FOR LIFE. Ask yourself what you want in life. Take time during all this analysis.
If you decide not to prepare then what options do you have? Will you be satisfied with it?
If you decide to prepare again then ask yourself, will it worth trying so hard and becoming a doctor? Go and meet someone who is a Doctor whom you know personally. Ask their insight about this field.
ALL THE BEST.
I hope this post will prove helpful to you. Feel free to ask any questions in the comment section.
You are as bright as everyone who gets selected.
WHAT WILL I SAY TO PARENTS?
They don't ask you why did you fail they only need to know that if you had given your best for the exam. They are always with you just be honest with them. The family is what which keeps you strong.
I DON'T FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Before you do something take a break for at least one week. Go and meet your childhood friends and the ones with whom you like to spend time. Get yourself involved in some outdoor sports which you like. Go out and sweat.
Don't avoid peoples which may ask you questions about your exam and failure. Face them, tell them confidently I could not perform well. You have not done any crime so don't hesitate from anyone.
At 1st you have to accept yourself and your failure in this exam. Face the truth and take your full responsibility of this. But keep in mind you just failed in an exam and there are many mores waiting for you in life. It is just a part of life. Everyone fails at some point of life. It is inevitable. You can't be afraid of failures. On an average out of 10 attempts lion gets to kill a prey only 3 times but does that stops him?
SHOULD I PREPARE AGAIN?
Don't make a decision in hurry. Now you may be feeling angry or you may have strong urge to prove yourself to parents or society. Know one thing clearly that you don't have to prove anything to anyone. You don't need approval from anyone. While being angry or sad the decisions you take does not prove to be wise and sooner or later you will regret it.
Analyze your position on various aspects like TIME, AGE, MARKS OBTAINED and your MOTIVE FOR LIFE. Ask yourself what you want in life. Take time during all this analysis.
If you decide not to prepare then what options do you have? Will you be satisfied with it?
If you decide to prepare again then ask yourself, will it worth trying so hard and becoming a doctor? Go and meet someone who is a Doctor whom you know personally. Ask their insight about this field.
I hope this post will prove helpful to you. Feel free to ask any questions in the comment section.
Facing the truth and taking full responsibility are always the hardest. It's scary
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